In order to be respectful to a fellow human being, we first have to be mindful of them… to notice the presence of them… isn’t that true? The dictionary uses the locution “consideration toward others” to depict courtesy.
Let’s muse this for a minute, shall we? The more you go on toward being a pro driver, the easier it is to find that the common attribute of defensive driving is your knowing of what’s happening beyond your car body bounds.
Most all the issues, less one, that can convert one into a dangerous driver go around events within the vehicle. Phone calls, chatting to passengers, email, enjoying music… all this stuff is what distracts you from paying attention.
Another part is your attitude. Muse it, if you are annoyed with something, a vehicle is not the best place to be and you should be self-conscious enough to conform your driving behavior until you lull, or not drive at all. Your touchstone should always be courtesy.
If you are respectful then a bunch of good things are happening in that computer in your caput. When you are respectful, you are focusing on what’s going on outside. You are also mindful to fellow drivers’ needs, which is as good as it gets. There are piles of chances on the ordinary journey around town to be polite to fellow drivers. They may not at all times detect your respect, but they usually do. In my extensive experience those limited benignities you give out to complete strangers usually get returned back to you by other complete strangers as if by white magic… kind of cool in fact. You unexpectedly discover fellow drivers letting you into tight spots when before they acted up like jerks… white magic I say to you.
If you will only risk to be as respectful as possible to fellow drivers for a week, I promise you will be astonished. It in fact shifts your whole perspective on driving while at the same time undoubtedly setting you as a genuine jimhickey. Now, who among us doesn’t want to be a jimhickey?
What ends up happening, is that you before long find yourself hunting for chances to give the fellow driver a break, which makes you feeling good about your deeds. It also focuses you… pay attention here… focuses you outside of the bubble in your car. You are concentrating on what’s happening out there much more, when you risk to be respectful to fellow drivers.
This limited practice in human relations 101 can change you from an average driver to a safe one in no time flat. So… you if you want to be a safe driver, it is easy… just give the fellow driver a break. Even if they don’t understand it, you will be a better human being and a better driver for doing it.
Posted by Joshua
Posted by Joshua